Thoughts from here and there…Influence

Thoughts from here and there…Influence

“In a gun factory,” writes an unknown author, “an elongated bar of steel, which weighed 500 pounds, was suspended by a chain. Beside it an average-sized cork was hanging by a silk thread. It was swung gently against the bar which remained motionless.

For 10 minutes the cork, with rhythmic regularity, continued to strike. Then the heavy piece of steel began to move slightly. At the end of an hour both objects were swinging together like the pendulum of a clock!”

You may find this hard to believe, but such is the power even of a small influence. Influence is reflected in the lives and activities of people in many large and small ways.

Terency Elwyn Johnson, of Margate Community Church (New Jersey), tells the story of Bonnee Hoy, a gifted composer, who died in the prime of life. At her memorial service, a friend told of how a mockingbird used to sing regularly outside Bonnee’s window on summer nights.

“Bonnee would stand at her bedroom window, peering into the darkness, listening intently, marveling at the beautiful songs the mockingbird sang. Then, musician that she was, Bonnee decided to sing back. So she whistled the first four notes of Beethoven’s ‘Fifth Symphony.’ With amazing quickness the mockingbird learned these four notes and sang them back to Bonnee. ‘And in perfect pitch,’ Bonnee marveled. Then, for a time the bird disappeared. But one night, toward the very end of her life, when Bonnee was so terribly sick, the bird returned and, in the midst of other songs, several times sang those first four notes of Beethoven’s ‘Fifth.'”

At that memorial service, her beloved friend, with a smile on her lips and tears in her eyes, said, “I like to think of that now. Somewhere out there (in a big, big world) is a mockingbird who sings Beethoven because of Bonnee.”

Are you living a life so full of song and joy that it brings out the music of other people’s lives? It may not be a few notes from Beethoven’s “Fifth Symphony” that is sounded by a mockingbird, it may be the simple influence of a picture hanging in your home.

Doris Forman remembers the time when she and her husband moved into a new house. Shortly after they moved in her husband asked her, “What about having a picture of Christ in our living room?”

Part of her thought it was a good idea and another part of her was unsure, but she agreed anyway. “Of course,” she said, “we were Christians and, of course we loved God–but a large picture of Christ hanging in the living room and in a spot where everyone who stepped into the room would see it–wasn’t that being a bit fanatical?”

When the decorator came out to check on lamps and pictures one day, he couldn’t help but notice the 16 x 20 inch print of “The Savior” by Coleman hanging over the piano in the most prominent place in the living room. The decorator suggested that another picture, perhaps a landscape, would look better in that spot. “We like it and that’s where it stays,” her husband replied firmly.

What would their friends think when they saw the large picture of Christ hanging in their living room? “Most of our friends were professed Christians, but they lived largely in a world of club affairs, cocktail parties and bridge luncheons,” Doris wondered. During the next two years, many interesting things happened to this family that they believe was a direct result of that picture. Total strangers, like the man who delivered their newspaper, began telling them their troubles. There were others who commented on the picture hanging in their living room. “Consciously, or maybe unconsciously, they felt that we must know Christ,” Doris said.

She concluded, “Our life today has more purpose, more meaning and more beauty” due to this decision to proclaim Christ as the Lord of their lives.

There is incredible power in influence. We may not realize just how much power we possess. It is power to change lives. It is power to change society. A small cork has the capacity to nudge into motion a 500 pound piece of steel. We are more than a cork, a lot more!

Thoughts from here and there…The Sacred

Thoughts from here and there…The Sacred

Some time ago Sylvester Stallone wrote: “If I were watching a home movie of my life, I would shake my head in despair and wonderment,” Stallone said with a laugh. “It’s a comedy of errors.” He has acknowledged that he has been arrogant, petty and selfish.

Stallone’s dramatic rise to success blinded him to what was most important. “When you’re living in the fast lane,” he said, “you tend to overlook the basic components that give your life meaning-relationships, getting to know someone really well, putting someone else first. People who are highly ambitious often don’t focus on the needs of their immediate family, especially their children….”

“Now, I understand what is sacred,” he said.

We are not actors like Sylvester Stallone or actresses like Jane Seymour who lived in the “fast lane,” and who tended to overlook the “basic components,” that give meaning to life. Yet we can be plagued with the same results as we chase or attempt to hold on to the “American Dream.”

September 11, 2001 will live on not only in memory, but also an anniversary. The sights and the sounds of this horrible terrorist attack will not soon be forgotten. We will remember not only the enemy but also the heros.

September 11 was so tragic for those who lost their lives and for those who mourn them. It can be for each of us a kind of a wake-up call. It offer us a time-out from our present concerns so that we might have time to contemplate what is truly sacred. In this let us each make room for God to reveal to us what we need and then let us rise up and with God’s help find fulfillment. In this way those who have died will not have died in vain.

Thoughts from here and there…Brokenness

Brokenness

There was a time when Step-son Hans and I were chasing a mouse that had gone behind the kitchen stove. Welding a broom we tried to dislodge the mouse from behind the stove so that we might capture and dispatch it. We did get the mouse but in the process we knocked a decorative plate from the wall. It fell to the floor and fragmented into many pieces. There was no way to save the plate. You could have glued the pieces together but many of them were so small that the plate would have had gaps where the decorations were missing. Helga was disappointed to discover the broken plate. Fortunately it was not a very expensive one.

There are times when life becomes broken. We do not think that it ought to happen, but it does. Henri Nouwen was a Priest and a psychologist. He spent 10 years of his life working with the disabled at a L’Arche community most of them at Daybreak in Toronto, Canada. It was out of this experience that he wrote, “Our life is full of brokenness – broken relationships, broken promises, broken expectations. How can we live with that brokenness without becoming bitter and resentful except by returning again and again to God’s faithful presence in our lives.” Our lives are full of brokenness. We cannot ignore the brokenness. It haunts our waking hours and our dreams. We cannot avoid the brokenness, we can only learn to live within it, using it to grow into a deeper relationship with the Healer of Broken Hearts, Jesus Christ. But there is more.

C. S. Lewis has written about the ways in which God in Christ works, “He works on us in all sorts of ways. But above all, he works on us through each other. Men are mirrors, or ‘carriers’ of Christ to other men. Usually it is those who know him that bring him to others. That is why the Church, the whole body of Christians showing him to one another, is so important. It is so easy to think that the Church has a lot of different objects – education, building, missions, holding services…the Church exists for no other purpose but to draw men into Christ, to make them little Christs. If they are not doing that, all the cathedrals, clergy, missions, sermons, even the Bible itself, are simply a waste of time. God became man for no other purpose. It is even doubtful, you know, whether the whole universe was created for any other reason.”

Showing Christ to one another. Demonstrating the love and compassion of Christ to one another. Living out in faithfulness the teachings of Christ with one another. This is the way to a life full of vitality and excitement. Helping one another to be a child of Christ. This is the way to utter fulfilment and satisfaction.

I have come to believe that there is no better way to live. I find in Christ not only a way to live with the brokenness, but also a way to use it to develop the coping skills that are needed to live within the brokenness. This is the way of ultimate purpose and meaning. This is not only something to think about, it is something to do.

The Congregational Way: What does it provide us?

The Congregational Way: What does it provide us?

Joe Polhemus then the editor of the Congregationalist, published by the National Association sent an e-mail message inviting me, and anyone else to address his concern which is as follows:

“The current issue of The Congregationalist, now languishing at the printer for several weeks, carries seven short definitions of the Congregational Way by seven Congregationalists, including Arthur Rouner, Jr.

“We talk at length about the merits of the Way, but when asked for specifics we get varied, sometimes vague, answers. If our Way is relevant, which I am sure it is, I believe we have a responsibility to articulate it in concise terms.

“I would welcome your definitions, in 150 words or less, by September 7, to be considered for publication in the Oct./Nov. issue of one of Christendom’s great publication. No prizes are being contemplated.”

The date came and went and I did not write anything for the Congregationalist. Mr. Polhemus’ concern is a genuine one, and one that ought to gain the attention of all who claim to be Congregationalists.

Specifically, what are the merits of the Way? What benefits do we acquire from our membership in the Congregational Christian Church?

If I were going to write a definition in 150 words the point that I would emphasize is FREEDOM! I would approach the meaning of freedom in this way.

In Congregationalism we have and must have freedom of choice, for good or ill. My reading of the biblical material defends this position. God created us and gave us choice. The first human used choice badly by eating fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. God does not physically, emotionally or psychology restrain their choice, and neither does he ours. Choice is one of the qualities that defines what it means to be human.

In Congregationalism we are free from creeds and statements of faith. Creeds and Statements of Faith have their place. What often happens is that creeds and Statements of Faith become fixed once and for all time. It is at this point that they become restrictive to spiritual development. God wants us to grow. Growth towards spiritual maturity is the work of a lifetime. It never ends. Dependence on a creed has the tendency to stifle growth by allowing us to believe that we know all that there is to know. This is not true.

Well, I am already at 261 words in this response, but let me add one more thought. In addition to freedom of choice and freedom for growth there is in Congregationalism the freedom to be. I was startled and comforted when one day when I read, “God is not so much interested in what we do, but why we do it.” We cannot do enough work to satisfy the claim of God on us, we can only love. God helps us to develop the understanding and the capacity to be loving people. Even as a pastor in Congregationalism I am only one amongst equals. We are together in Christ, above all else, people who love and care for one another.

Mr. Polhemus wrote: “We talk at length about the merits of the Way, but when asked for specifics we get varied, sometimes vague, answers. If our Way is relevant, which I am sure it is, I believe we have a responsibility to articulate it in concise terms.” I hope that what I have tried to share with you in this brief article articulates the benefits of our Way in concise terms. I am delighted and proud (in the best meaning of the word) to be a Congregationalist.

Thoughts from here and there…What’s for Dinner?

Thoughts from here and there…What’s for Dinner?

I don’t know why they did it. Maybe they didn’t want to bother. Perhaps it was too much work. Possibly they were only exercising their independence, after all, who wants to be told what to eat. Its worth thinking about.

“The dinner I’m going to starts at 6, John so I’ve prepared everything for you here. There’s a nice casserole in the fridge just put it in the microwave and then into the oven at 350º ‘till it bubbles…Put frozen peas into a covered Pyrex dish and microwave on high for three minutes, stir and heat again. I bought buns, there’s a fresh garden salad , for dessert there is…”

Elizabeth interrupts, “We’ll be fine, mom—honest.”

Mom waves goodbye. John, Elizabeth and April are seen leaving through the front door. They go to a local burger restaurant where they are eating burgers, fries, and a soft drink. Behind them on the wall is a menu board with headings which read: “Burgorama,” “Dogorama,” and “Spudorama.”

This is an episode of “For Better or Worse,” featuring the Patterson’s as drawn and written by Lynn Johnston.

As I read the pictures and the dialogue, I wondered why? In this age of health-consciousness, why? Why the fat and sodium? Why the calories? Why not stay at home and eat the delicious and nutritious meal that Elly had prepared? It is typical, is it not? It gives us something to think about. Just think of the table that God has spread.

In Matthew 22:1-10, it is written that: “Once more Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying: ‘The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come. Again he sent other slaves, saying, “Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.” But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. Then he said to his slaves, “The wedding is ready, but those invited were not worthy. Go therefore into the main streets, and invite everyone you find to the wedding banquet.” Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad; so the wedding hall was filled with guests.'”

I know this is a future banquet, but the invitation and it’s acceptance take place in the present. If Jesus has prepared a great banquet, why should we go to McDonald’s? It doesn’t make sense to do this, unless we are more like the first invited guests to Jesus’ banquet than we might realize.

We have here in stark contrast the bread of heaven. In contrast the food of this world may be characterized as, “Deceitful,” (Proverbs 23:2-3); “Ashes,” (Isaiah 44:20); “Unsatisfying,” (Isaiah 55:2); “Like corn husks,” (Luke 15:16); and “Perishable,” (John 6:27).

People consciousness of their nutrition needs would certainly seek that which satisfies and nurtures; they would wouldn’t they? What Lynn Johnston reveals is that is not always the case.

Worship is a banquet spread with the encouragement of the word which feeds the hungry soul with good things.

Psalms 23:5, says “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.”

You cannot get this kind of food at Burger King.

Thoughts from here and there…What is your net worth?

Thoughts from here and there…What is your net worth?

Some time ago, I was privileged to participate in the funeral service for Charlie Stack at St. James Catholic church. Before I offered my few remarks, I listened to the homely of Father Drutowski. One observation that he made really caught my attention. He asked us to consider our net worth.

What is your net worth? It all depends on how you define net worth. I suppose that you could add up all your physical assets; bank accounts, stocks and bonds, value of property held and reduce the gross by your liabilities to get your net worth. In the eyes of the people of the world life is measured by our net worth, but what is it in the eyes of God.

Quite dramatically, Jesus reminds us of the dangers of valuing possessions over character. In Matthew 6, he says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also,” (Matthew 6:19-21 NRSV).

A few simple questions help us to better understand what Jesus is talking about. What is treasure? In one case it is material assets. On the other hand, it is the results of a life of faith and love. Truly, treasure is what the person, above all else, desires for him or her self.

How do you store up for yourself treasure in heaven? How often it is that we really don’t know. The answer is simple. We need to be exposed to information that helps us to realize the meaning. I know of only one source. God is the source of all true wisdom and knowledge. To answer the question one must become acquainted with the author of the source of the information. You cannot take it for granted that you can personally know within yourself.

We may have much net worth here on earth. That does not cut it with God. It makes no difference if we are wealthy or poor, or somewhere in between, what counts with God is the net worth that will be accepted and which provides us with a valid claim for participation in the kingdom.

What’s important in all this is my level of knowledge and wisdom. Worship attendance is designed to help each of us learn. In writing to the Ephesians, Paul said, “Although I am less than the least of all God’s people, this grace was given me: to preach to the Gentiles the unsearchable riches of Christ, and to make plain to everyone the administration of this mystery, which for ages past was kept hidden in God, who created all things. His intent was that now, through the church, the manifold wisdom of God should be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms,” (Ephesians 3:8-10, NIV)

Notice the means by which the unsearchable riches of Christ are to be communicated; it is preaching. Ponder God’s intent how the manifold wisdom of God should be made known; it is through the church.

Congregationalists have always placed a great deal of emphasis on the Word, the preaching of the Word. It is central to our worship. And most often, though not always, the Word is preached in church. This is why it is important to participate in worship.

It would be very sad indeed to get to the gates of heaven and find out that your heavenly treasure is insufficient. You can enlarge your net worth through your participation in the programs and activities of the church and in living out the learned faith in the family and community.

Thoughts from here and there…Helping

Thoughts from here and there…Helping (I removed the names to protect the people mentioned in this blog.)

On June 20, 1996, I officiated at a non-member wedding in the sanctuary of Caldwell United Methodist Church, Caldwell, WI. After the wedding the gentleman who is a member of the church, and who opened and closed the building, approached me with a question and an inquiry. A church member complained about non-member families use of the church facilities. The comment was, “They neither will join the church nor attend services. Under these conditions, why should we provide people the services of the church?” Why indeed? But then, stop and ponder what the church is for.

My answer to the custodian of the day was, “The church is here to be taken advantage of.” We are to demonstrate love and do good works whether they are appreciated or not, even whether there is not a positive response or not. We are here to provide loving service to those in need within the hope that what is done might strike a responsive cord in their lives and turn them towards God in ways that we may not anticipate.

It is and has always been that way, even from the beginning when Jesus taught and performed the miracles of healing for mind and body. Jesus went about the countryside of Galilee and Decapolis, and other places healing people and teaching them the basics of the kingdom of God. Did Jesus ever say that these good people had to become church members? No! Of course, there was not yet a church, but Jesus did have a group of followers. He did not even tell people to become part of the group.

Jesus did not tell people that in order to be blessed by his power and wisdom that they had to change their lives and live according to his plan for them. All that he asked is that they considered what it meant to be a loving human being under the tutelage of a gracious God who loved them and wanted to save them.

Obviously Jesus also pointed out what might happen if individuals were unrelated to the kingdom of God. The results could be pretty severe. This might act as an incentive for life changes, but often it did not.

Jesus met and helped people where they were and so ought we do the same today. When you do the rewards may not be apparent, and yet they may be. I received this letter in the mail on July 30.

Dear Reverend Shultz,

My family wishes to honor the memory of ??? by this donation to you and your church.

His last days were greatly eased by your presence at the hospital, talking and praying with him.

My mother, ???, took great comfort in your ministry and spiritual help in dealing with her sadness. The beauty of ‘small town’ life is evident in the fact that you are a friend as well as pastor to anyone needing help.

We very much appreciated your wonderful, very personal eulogy. It helped all of us say Goodby to our dear friend and honorary “???.”

May God bless you for your kindness.

Sincerely,

??? & Family

I am delighted that the family was blessed by our ministry. For you see it is not only I who minister, but in our Congregational tradition I am only one amongst equals. We are all in ministry together for the people of our church, our community, and our world. God will bless this ministry in ways that we no not of because we reach out and seek to be helpful to everyone in every way we can.

One Candle Can Dispel the Darkness

“It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.” Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen used this thought to close his television program.

What we have discovered is that it is very easy to “curse the darkness.” Cursing is not swearing. Cursing is a form of criticism. It is a means of expressing a deep dissatisfaction with the way “it” is. “It” being anything that we want it to mean.

Each of us have a candle to light. That is, each Christian has a candle to light. Jesus speaks of the Christian and light:

“You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. No one after lighting a lamp puts it under the bushel basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven, (Matthew 5:14-16 NRSV)

To light a lamp or a candle is to become involved, in a positive way, in seeking to address perceived wrongs, and to use one’s influence to bring about constructive change. Lighting a candle means to use one’s talents, abilities, and skills to create what needs to be achieved, rather than waiting for someone else to do it for you. It means remaining where you are, rather than seeking what it is that you feel you need in other directions where needs may not be ultimately met.

By getting involved in creating what is needed we do good deeds. As Portia in Shakespear’s play, The Merchant of Venice, says: “That little light we see burning in my hall. How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a naughty world”

Adlai Stevenson said of Anna Eleanor Roosevelt, “She would rather light candles than curse the darkness and her glow has warmed the world.”

Anna Eleanor Roosevelt wrote, “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’…You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

Enough said. This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine, and shine everywhere.

Thoughts from here and There…Dancing In the Rain

It is Wednesday, June 11, 2008, Charles Gibson of ABC News is reporting on a story where children who are cancer patients at Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York City were celebrating Prom Night. ABC asked its listening, viewing audience to send, “Messages of Hope for Cancer Prom-Goers.”

“We asked “World News” viewers to pass along their messages of hope to young cancer patients who just attended a prom. We’ve passed along your messages to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center, and we’ve posted some of your responses below.”

“Jeff from Bradenton, Fla., wrote: ‘Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass—it’s about learning how to dance in the rain. Dance away’……Signed Jeff (Stage IV Lymphoma).”

Dr. Sharon McLaughlin from Wantagh, N.Y., wrote: ‘I loved your smiles on World News. This is a difficult time in your life. When I was 13 I was treated at Sloan-Kettering. I loved the playroom and the beautiful views of the city. I didn’t like losing my hair and the time spent away from my friends. My advice would be to live, love, laugh and fight. You will become a stronger person and have an understanding of life that some people do not learn in a lifetime. Best of wishes and only happy thoughts.’ Sharon T Mclaughlin MD FACS.”

I copied two of the messages and would share the with you because they are not just for the intended young people they are applicable to all of us.

Life is not waiting for the storm to pass—it’s about learning to dance in the rain. Dancing is better than crying.

We all have difficult times. Our times may not be as difficult as the patients face in Sloan Kettering. Sharon McLaughlin’s advice is just as vital for each of us. It is to live, to love, to laugh, and to fight for the right.

Thoughts from here and there….Have you arrived?

Thoughts from here and there….Have you arrived?

Jan Salisbury was a psychotherapist and organizational consultant. In a presentation to the Washington State Attorney General’s State Conference in September, 1986, she read to her listeners the following:

I Have Arrived.
I have not seen the plays in town
only the computer printouts
I have not read the latest books
only The Wall Street Journal
I have not heard birds sing this year
only the ringing of phones
I have not taken a walk anywhere
but from the parking lot to my office
I have not shared a feeling in years
but my thoughts are known to all
I have not listened to my own needs
but what I want I get
I have not shed a tear in ages
I have arrived.
Is this where I was going?

Is this where I was going? This is a question that very pointedly addresses the stresses and strains of modern life. Is this where I was going? Is also revealing because of what is not mentioned.

There is a remedy. Why not include attendance at worship. Worship exposes us, in a more intense way, to the presence of God. Worship is an expression of our faith in God. Worship gives you the opportunity to raise your voice in singing the great songs of the past and the present. Songs of praise as well as songs of penitence.

Worship provides you with the opportunity to share in laughter and sometimes in tears. Worship connects us with friend and would-be friends. Worship can soothe the troubled mind and bring relief to the anxious spirit.

Is this where I was going? There is a remedy. It is simple. It is worthwhile.